Suicide? Pasti banyak dari kalian yang tau dan paham apa itu suicide. Yup, suicide is the action of killing oneself intentionally alias mengakhiri hidupnya sendiri atau 'kasarnya' bunuh diri. Is it that bad? YES IT IS THAT BAD.
Lalu kenapa masih banyak orang lain -atau yang mau dibahas di sini adalah suicide di kalangan remaja- memutuskan untuk mengakhiri hidupnya? Hal itu bisa aja didasari beberapa hal yang sangat menekan remaja-remaja untuk suicide, biasa berupa mental disorder sendiri seperti depresi, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, kecanduan alkohol atau narkoba, atau memang dia emotionally unstable. Masalah-masalah yang terlalu berat bagi si korban maupun tekanan orang-orang sekitar juga dipercaya menjadi pendukung seseorang untuk melakukan suicide.
I
feel like I don't need to write about the ways to suicide because I
know you've already known about that, jadi kita skip ya (Iya.) Menurut
situs wikipedia 800.000-1.000.000 orang meninggal setiap tahunnya karena
suicide. Di Indonesia sendiri, terdapat 31 kasus bunuh diri yang
terjadi di tahun 2012, 13 kasus nakibat putus cinta, 7 kasus akibat
masalah ekonomi, 8 karena ketidakharmonisan keluarga, dan 3 kasus akibat
masalah akademis (http://www.academia.edu).
Untuk selengkapnya kalian mungkin bisa googling sendiri untuk mengetahui lebih lanjut, I just want to tell you guys, kalau kalian punya pikiran untuk bunuh diri, please don't.
I know how it feels to be alone, feels like nobody cares about you. Ngerasa dunia gak adil dan ngerasa masalah kamu tuh paling berat dari apa yang dialami temen-temen kamu. Atau mungkin kamu ngerasa kamu tertekan, serba salah, atau BAHKAN berpikir you'd rather die.
Just don't. People love you even though they don't show or tell it often. People don't want to lose you. Bayangin aja orang tua kamu yang kerja mati-matian buat bayar uang sekolah atau uang jajan kamu, beban mereka lebih besar, bahkan pas mereka remaja they don't have anything like you have now, yet they get through it.
Count your problems as blessings, COME ON you're not that weak. Berusaha pikir positif even though I KNOW it's so damn hard. Show to those bitches and assholes out there that you're even stronger than they ever thought. If your friends are not there for you, then leave. Go find others who are accepting you, being there for you. There always someone somewhere who will fight for you, who will love you.
If you did suicide people who love you (Yes, they exist) will sad. Mereka pasti merasa sedih, merasa gagal dan nyesel. They will confused of what did they do wrong of you. Posisikan kamu di mana orang yang kamu sayang ngelakuin suicide, it breaks your heart isn't it?
Hal ini juga untuk menyinggung kalian untuk lebih peka terhadap perasaan orang lain. Don't be mean to others, you'll never know what battle he/she's fighting for. Kita gak tau masalah yang lagi dia jalanin. TREAT people how you want to be TREATED. As simple as that. :') It sucks sometimes people have to be taken away from us in order to appreciate them, but it happens.
Jangan sampe kamu bkal nyesel sambil mikir, "I wish I didn't do that". Regret is a bitch.
I know depression or anything that happens to you that makes you want to do the suicide can't be fixed overnight, even death can't fix it. Please don't. It always takes time, it takes time to heal your wounds, it takes time to be over. Just wait, and try that's the only solution. Cry, swear, scream, take time to be alone, but don't hurt yourself.
I know I'm not even an expert to talk such a psychological thing like this, I just want to share my thought though. Remember when you think you want to do suicide or even hurt yourself, you really think that no one cares, people do care. I care about you, about your stupid silly dreams, about your life goal about your happiness and sadness. YOU deserve to be happy that's your right. It's your time to shine, don't let people knock you down and laugh over you. Stand up, fight up, fight like you're an hungry warrior (well not literally).
HEYYY this is Suicide Hotline Indonesia number 021-500-454 in case you want to talk to someone expert :)
Oh, here's Anna Akana's speak up on her youtube channel about her sister who committed suicide, so heartwrecking; link's down below.
Stay strong! :) xxxx
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